Keys to Successful Dog Training #2

In my previous blog I talked about finding the right motivation to do obedience training.  The why for you and your dog.  Your next key to successful dog training is Attitude.  I have heard the phrase, ‘Attitude is Everything’ and it is, especially when training with your dog. Did you know that your dog’s attitude mirrors yours?  They watch you closely, sense your energy and are extremely intuitive.  Knowing this should help you be very aware of the affect you will have on the success of training your dog.

My sister had a professional organizing business for 12 years and she used to tell her clients that every organizing project starts with the 6×6 inch space between your ears.  Her tag line was, “Believe it, See it, Be it”.  This applies to training as well.  First you need to believe you can train your dog, then you see it, by doing training classes; and then you be it by becoming the one your dog trusts for direction.  Once you learn the how to’s you can carry on and do all kinds of great things with your dog.

Right now, I am experiencing a huge challenge with my dog Mack.  His health took a mysterious turn for the worse in March and after several months of tests, various clinics, doctors and diagnosis I have my answer and a plan, and we are moving forward.  In the beginning all I wanted was a quick fix. I wanted to make the symptoms go away.  Instead I had to embrace the journey.  During these last 5 months my attitude towards finding the answer that would hopefully lead to a cure for him was a roller coaster ride.  I have had moments of being sanguine, exuberant, fervent, skeptical and ambivalent.  I wanted to give up.  I have been mad, frustrated and brought to tears. But I have never given up.  I am determined to do the best I can for my dog because I love him dearly and he loves me. Together we have persevered to find the answer to the challenge.  It has taken many hours and hundreds of dollars.  At this point I am happy to share that we are on the other side, heading towards recovery. But guess what?  We have a year ahead of us that includes treatment and mindful behavior.  He is a national dual champion, used to conquering every challenge before him, and right now that includes slowing down and taking short walks (some days just for one block) and resting.  He will do this, one day at a time.

Have you ever started something, like a new exercise regimen and after a few days you miss a day and you think, oh well that’s ok, it doesn’t really matter?  Well it does matter because the more days you miss the more benefit you miss out on.  So, what’s the best thing to do?  Restart.  Do something.  I know that every day will not be your best training day.  Maybe you had to work late, the car broke down or you just don’t feel well.  Even on those days it’s mentally so important to do something that either refreshes your dog’s skills or challenges it to try something new.  You could do a few tricks or simply do a few sits, stays, downs and heel for a short walk and call it a day, at least you did something.  And while you are doing this, smile and enjoy your time with your dog.  Watch your dog’s reaction.  Its tail will wag, and he will smile at you.  No one will ever give you as much unconditional love as your dog will.

Go ahead and put it on your calendar.  Give yourself something to look forward to.  Try to be lighthearted and exuberant when thinking about doing your training.  Its team building at its best!  I hope this blog has caused you to reflect on your attitude and to think if there are any adjustments you want to consider making to improve your training.  Watch for more keys to come.  Together they will help you unlock your training potential.

Cheers,

Julie